The Power of Gratitude: Appreciating Life’s Blessings

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Don’t procrastinate finding gratitude. Being able to acknowledge things, situations, and people in your life and how they impact your life is a powerful tool that needs repetitive work to accomplish and be successful. The time to start working on your gratitude is now. Do not wait to go through adversity to realize the important aspects in your life. Initially, finding things which you are grateful can come as an odd feeling. This is because we have developed into a society where we are always striving for more, desiring more, and feeling under pressure to achieve.

I took months finding ways that worked for me during my medical journey. It did feel weird to list things for which I was grateful. Therapy had taught me what is worth it, you put in the work. To list 3-5 things that made me grateful started with confusion. I wondered if it was worth it, would it help, and so on. You may wish to write yours down so that you can go back to them later. Start out small and build to bigger things or start big and discover the little things that you will discover along the way.

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In my medical journey, I had to confront several issues including introspection and finding things that I was grateful for each day to get me through the mental battle and physical pain. By contributing in their own way, I started to realize what was important and how I appreciated them. When you are in pain and restricted to bed, your main activity is thinking about things. You start to realize that pushing yourself to exhaustion to achieve material items, a promotion, or impress that person becomes irrelevant in the larger scope of things.

I began to be thankful for having periodically dull pain instead of the body contorting spasms. That is right, I was thankful for the pain, milder pain, but still pain. There were many days where the pain was so severe that I had asked God to take me so that I would no longer feel it. I didn’t know at first if I was losing my mind or just accepting fate. I started being thankful for the pain as it meant that I was still alive. Miserable, but alive. I started to appreciate things that I had taken for granted in daily life for so long. Things that most of us ignore. Things that seem so insignificant and just are.

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When was the last time that you sat and listened, actually listened, to birds chirp? Yes, you here them all the time, but when was the last time you took the time to pause and listen. When was the last time you have taken time to experience hearing; rain and the rhythm it creates, a flower with its scent and delicate textures, a pattern in a piece of material, the rhythm of the tires on the highway. These are things that we ignore or at times get irritated toward. But, in choosing to view these as a gratitude instead of nuisance or ignored completely, you acknowledge the beauty of each, you open yourself up to living a more relaxed life instead of existing in the chaos of life.

In finding things that you are grateful for, you start realizing that certain things just become irrelevant in the bigger view or, at least, less important. As you continue to find new things you are grateful, you will find it easier to appreciate life in a better mood and growing new perspectives. Gratitude is a great weapon to combat stress, anxiety and depression. Learning to appreciate what you have and not worry about what you don’t have, you begin to accept life on its terms and adapt to change easier and faster. When something comes up after you have been using gratitude, it will be easier to adjust and deal with it. Your brain will go to a positive or less negative view of the situation than before when you would have reacted, instead of responding.

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Gratitude can be general or very personal. The amount of gratitude is up to you and the degree that you are willing to put in. Gratitude has helped me change my life and accept life how it was dealt to me from birth to death to cancer diagnosis to transplant to being a better person. Gratitude helped me through getting sober, through the medical battles and continues through my surgical recovery and new life. The most important step in understanding gratitude is that you must take the first step. Find one thing or person each day that you are grateful for. Do this for a week or two and then step it up to two each day and build upon it over time. You can repeat these gratitudes from day to day or week to week. Give it a try and see how it can change your perspective on situations or adversities. Courage is the First Step Toward Change